Living in student residences is an exciting part of university life. Whether you're new to King’s or returning for another year, sharing a space with others is a great way to build friendships, create connections, and form memories that will last well beyond graduation.
I’m Anushri and I recently graduated from MSc Organisational Psychiatry and Psychology. As someone who lived in King’s Residences, I know firsthand how exciting – and sometimes challenging – shared living can be!
The key to a great experience is finding a balance between study, socializing, and respecting each other’s space. Based on my experience, here are some tips to help you live well with others and make the most of your time in residences.
1. Communication is everything
Good vibes in shared living start with solid communication. Whether it's setting ground rules, figuring out a cleaning rota, or just talking about what works for everyone, being open and clear can prevent a lot of headaches.
Set expectations early
Sit down with your flatmates early on and talk about things like cleaning schedules, noise levels, and how you’ll handle guests. It doesn’t have to be a formal meeting, just a casual chat to make sure everyone’s on the same page.
Speak up (nicely!)
If something’s bothering you, don’t let it simmer. Whether it's someone not cleaning up after themselves or being too loud, address issues before they escalate - but do it calmly and respectfully. Little things are easier to fix than big arguments.
2. Build friendships and connections
One of the best parts of living in residences is meeting new people and building a community. But friendships don’t just happen - you’ve got to make an effort!
Attend residence events
One of the easiest ways to meet new people is by attending the social events organized by King's Residences. Whether they are pizza parties, movie nights, quiz games or painting sessions – ResiLife events are designed to help break the ice and bring everyone closer.
When I first moved in, these events really helped me feel more connected and at ease in the new environment. King’s is a wonderfully diverse place, with students from all over the world.
Even if you're feeling a bit shy or out of your comfort zone, remember that everyone’s in the same boat. Use this as an opportunity to learn about new cultures, traditions and perspectives. It can be a great way to bond with people you might not have otherwise got to know.
3. Balance your social and study life
Living with friends can be a fun but it’s easy to get distracted from your studies. The key to a successful year is finding the right balance between having fun and hitting the books.
Set a study routine
Try to stick to a regular study schedule that works for you. Let your flatmates know when you’re in study mode so they can be mindful of noise or disruptions.
Use study spaces
All Residences have designated quiet areas or study rooms. If your flat’s getting a bit loud, head there to focus or visit one of the libraries. It also helps to create a mental break between studying and chilling out in your room.
Don’t be afraid to say no
Between impromptu get-togethers and all the events happening on campus, it’s important to carve out time for studying. It’s okay to skip a night out or movie marathon if you need to catch up on assignments or prep for exams. Your friends will understand!
4. Respect shared spaces
You’ll be sharing a lot of spaces - kitchens, bathrooms, lounges. Keeping these spaces tidy and respectful makes life easier for everyone. No one likes coming into the kitchen to find a pile of dirty dishes or a mess left on the counter. Try to clean as you go - it only takes a minute but makes a huge difference.
Be mindful of noise
Everyone has different schedules, so it’s important to be considerate. If you’re blasting music or chatting on the phone late at night, it could disrupt someone else’s sleep or study time. Headphones are your best friend!
5. Take care of your wellbeing
University life can be intense and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. That’s why looking after your mental and physical health is so important, especially when you’re living in a busy, shared environment.
Set boundaries for quiet time
It’s essential to carve out some personal time and space to recharge. Designate a spot where you can unwind – in your room or a cosy corner in residences.
When things get hectic having a space where you can relax helps you reset. Amidst all the socializing and studying, don’t forget to take care of yourself. Reading, listening to music, meditating, or journaling, do things that make you feel calm and centered. Self-care looks different for everyone, so find what works best for you.
Prioritize sleep
A good night’s sleep is essential for your overall well-being. Try to stick to a routine and create a peaceful sleep environment by minimising distractions before bed.
Keep active
Exercise is a great way to relieve stress. Find ways to stay active even in a busy schedule; a quick run, a yoga session in your room or joining a sports club. Getting some physical activity can do wonders for your mood and energy levels.
King's residents have free access to the BeActive programme while some halls are also equipped with their own gyms! Make sure to take advantage of those to clear your mind and reduce stress.
Reach out if you need help
If you’re feeling down or stressed, don’t keep it to yourself. Residences have in-house Welfare Leads and King’s has excellent Student Support & Wellbeing Services for all students, including dedicated Counselling & Mental Health Support and Faculty Wellbeing Advisors, so don’t hesitate to reach out to them if you need someone to talk to or help managing stress.
The Money & Housing Advice Service can also help if you're living in privately rented accommodation. To find out more, check our article What topics can Housing Advice support me with?
Final thoughts
Shared living is an incredible opportunity to build lifelong friendships, create unforgettable memories, and grow as a person. By communicating openly, respecting each other’s space, and balancing your study and social life, you’ll be setting yourself up for a great year.
Embrace the experience, be kind, and enjoy everything that comes with living in a vibrant student community!