Ageing and Dying
I’m interested in how we talk about medicine and care — in public, in clinical practice, and in policy — with particular attention to pain, ageing, and the end of life. My most recent research looked at how practitioners and academics working in hospice and palliative care talk about pain at the end of a person’s life and the effects that might have on how we understand, interact with and exist as dying people.
Dying and death might not seem like what you want to be thinking about if you’re trying to challenge the pessimism around the ageing process! However, both older people and people who are dying (irrespective of age) often come up against the same issues. Mainstream culture today fetishizes youth and vitality in ways that stigmatise those who do not fulfill its norms. Just like how doctors would sometimes ignore dying people in the 1950s and 1960s before the advent of the modern hospice movement, today older people are often written off as ineffectual, slow-thinking and not contributing to society. This kind of ableist stigma can lead to loneliness and even what sociologists call ‘social death’, where people become cut off from others much earlier than their physical death.
Both dying and ageing also present individuals with issues of meaning. A greater sense of individualism in richer countries in the global North encourages people to rely on a sense of self constituted by memories and narratives of the past. People who are dying therefore sometimes find it reassuring to look back over their life and spend time with their memories, but can equally find that they are physically or mentally unable to be the author of their own life. Older age can similarly focus people’s thoughts on the past, particularly when they are less able to do some of the activities they used to enjoy, in ways that can be consoling or depressing. The significance of memories and story-telling is additionally challenged when someone is living with dementia.
In my own research for SAACY, I hope to explore some of these issues, thinking about the role of social assumptions and narratives when you are getting towards the end of your own story. I’m also interested in the way that the much-touted denial of death in the global North intersects with pessimism about ageing. Might a healthier relationship with the fact that we’re going to die help us find more to live for into old age?